Monday evening/Tues morning
Tuesday morning.
8:45 am call from nurse Teresa saying dad's ini count is still too high for biopsy, so it won't happen today. they will keep him on vit k so that hopefully he will be able to go tomorrow. She said he had a restful night.
Doc. T said yest he was going to talk to renal point doc Schiff in Robinnette's office about if dad should be moved to TO for oral biospy (which T. says; he's never heard of for liver). And if liver transplant is even a remote possibility. Must follow up with T about that. Even if the answer is no, I will feel I'm doing right by dad getting an accurate answer from someone who has knowledge in the field.
Have placed calls to james and suz. Someone will have to be here to take mom to hosp to sign authorization form to go ahead with biopsy for dad, if it goes ahead.
Looking forward to getting home to Stan and the kids tonite. For now, time to get back to the house....
Monday night.
Dad resting more peacefully tonight. No communication with alternate universe. Allowed himself to relax into a deeper sleep. We left some pictures of the kids with him. He recognized the baby and then the big kids with prompting.
Monday evening
This aft after I left the wireless hotspot at Starbucks at 1st and Pine to get into the car, i could see the Watts Boats building. The top east corner of the roof is crumbling.
Maybe something about seeing that building made me feel like taking a drive to one of my favourite tihinking spots, the road behind the old drydocks.
It used to be a scrubby wasteland. For several years now, there has been a nice walking path there. Too bad -- i'm in the mood for scrub right now.
I don't remember in the past seeing the cairn that marks where the nwmp got off the train and boarded a steamship to go out and quell the Riel rebellion.
I thought of that emblem again in one of the stained glass windows, the Moses window on the northwest wall of fp, dedicated to the town's pioneers. It has a masted ship at the top, and a train second from the top on this coat of arms.
You forget that c-wood had a railway legacy as well.
That's kind of like dad. From the bench where I sat, you could see a bulldozer and dumptruck pushing fill around on the old shipyard lands. The first stages of the residential building project that's going up there.
If you look into the town, past the 4 plex theatre, you can see the senior's centre that dad designed when he had his own business after the shipyard closed. I remember we had a very sad party there when dad lost the mayoralty race, after 2 successful stints as a town councillor.
I see election signs for 2 'family' members around town. wendy mckenzie, former wife of one of dad's so-called brothers who has the lien on my parents' house. funny - thought you would have to be able to read to be a councillor. or a least have a vocabulary beyond 4 letter words. long live democracy. if you want to vote for family, vote for irene. she's got the right stuff.
Then I took a little spin behind the grain terminal elevators. Dad and I had a couple of Tim Horton's car picnics in the new park space back there over the past few years. It's all very nice and cosmetically pleasing. usable public space. Not so long ago it was a cold windswept quiet place.
On my way back out, the door for the Watts boats project out there caught my eye.
Dad took me and the kids thru there a few years ago when i brought the kids home for a 'collingwood roots' study project. i also took them to the old mckenzie farm in osprey township. stewart was on the tractor mower. it was the week bud and wilda sold the farm. they won't remember any of this. i'm still glad i took them.
One thing i filed away from our visit to the watts shop was that someday i wanted to take mom and dad and the kids on a trip on the skiff. at the time i noticed it was about $80.
It's probably one of those silly things that only matters to the person who has the unfulfilled wish, not so much to the person who doesn't receive it.
If that old man makes it out of hospital this time, i'm taking him out on that boat, and that's a promise.
Posted by sutter or mckenzie
at 10:27 AM EDT
Updated: Tuesday, 17 October 2006 10:29 AM EDT